The Third Parent
Having to have lived in an Asian household, I’ve learnt that many things are more different than people actually think they are. It teaches you many norms that are not normal here in America. For example, like taking your shoes off before going into your house, having no shoes in your room, living with your entire family, etc. Like how each culture has its own expectations and roles I had one of my own. Me and my family moved to the US when I was 2 years old. After my brother was born, I knew I would take care of him, but I did not become the older sister. I actually became the “third parent” since my parents were always so busy and were out a lot. Which is why I was always expected to be the perfect girl. The one that my brother could look up to, ask questions, do whatever I do, follow my lead, and be the best version of him. I absolutely adore my brother so I didn’t really care but I realized how it shaped me and the things around me. This role that my parents...